All in Changing Our Feelings About Money
One thing that I have long learnt about the phrase “I can’t afford this or that”, is that, most of the time, we are subconsciously saying “I don’t want to pay for this or that” because we spend money all the time, it’s really about our priorities, if something is your priority, you will find a way of affording it, if it is not, you will find excuses of why you “can’t” afford it.
When I started on my personal finance journey, everyone told me to do affirmations and visualization and that everything would shift when I did this.
Yet something interesting happened in my world – the more I affirmed, the worse I felt and the more critical and negative I became towards myself...
What are the 3 mistakes that keep spiritual people broke?
I was raised in a culture that taught me that it's rude to ask for things.
As a woman society taught me that good girls are reserved in their desires, they wait to be offered things and they hint at the things they want.
This lie held me back for years, especially in business where I spent years hinting at people to buy my products and hire me for my services.
One of the things that came up for me in a recent spirit of money and inner child meditation is this idea of worthiness.
I woke up from a spirit of money meditation with the realization that I've spent my life proving my worthiness to people, to lovers and even to money.
A few weeks ago, Jo Ntsebeza from Kalavati Café shared her experience about the spirit of money meditations on the Facebook.
Jo explained that during one of her spirit of money meditations, money came to her and explained that she should stop looking for free things.