Expansion is going to trigger you, your expansion is going to trigger others around you, it will also inspire others around you and you are going to grow in ways you never anticipated, if you spend your life running from your triggers, you will make expansion harder.
Vangile explains how the need to control is deeply rooted in trauma responses, including feelings of powerlessness, fear, and a desire to avoid vulnerability. She discusses how control may initially create a sense of safety but can have unintended consequences—from fostering dependency and resentment to reinforcing dysfunctional family patterns. These dynamics can block authentic connection, erode boundaries, and perpetuate cycles of over-responsibility and burnout.
The RunAway’s transformation involves acknowledging the need for change, practicing self-awareness, and learning to feel safe in the body.
Vangile explains that Destroyers, though often misunderstood, play a crucial role in family dynamics. They bring hidden truths and secrets to light, often disrupting the status quo. This role can be painful but ultimately leads to healing and growth within the family.
Vangile also explores the challenges Sweet Ones face in pricing their services and seeking salary increases due to fear of judgment and conflict.
Vangile Makwakwa, Wealthy Money, Ancestral Money Wisdom, Financial Independence, Marriage and Money, Ancestral Trauma Healing, Financial Education, Money Mindset, Generational Wealth, Black Tax, Mother Wound, Father Wound, Survival Mindset, Systemic Racism
