How to Forgive (Without Compromising Your Boundaries)

How to Forgive (Without Compromising Your Boundaries)

Vangile Makwakwa
Relationship dynamics and money

I’ve been thinking a lot about forgiveness and boundaries.

A few weeks ago I did the meditation on memories about money and had a past life memory.

It’s a memory I’ve had many times before in my past life regression sessions, where I saw my mother kill me. She was a soldier in that life and I was the wife of a man who was plotting treason and when the soldiers came looking for the man they found me.

My sister was my son in that lifetime and I had hid him (my son) in the shed so he could be safe.

In the meditation I flashed to this memory and I saw how right before I died I made a vow to avenge myself and avenge that killing.

This was a light bulb moment for me because I finally understood why my inner child at the age 4 was obsessed with vengeance, especially when it came to my mom.

The first time I ever flashed to this memory, a few years ago, I kept going back and forth between that past life memory and this life time.

Case Study: Creating Money Magic with Kgomotso

Case Study: Creating Money Magic with Kgomotso

Vangile Makwakwa
Changing Our Feelings About Money

One thing that I have long learnt about the phrase “I can’t afford this or that”, is that, most of the time, we are subconsciously saying “I don’t want to pay for this or that” because we spend money all the time, it’s really about our priorities, if something is your priority, you will find a way of affording it, if it is not, you will find excuses of why you “can’t” afford it.

On Celebrating Small Wins and Taking Action

On Celebrating Small Wins and Taking Action

Vangile Makwakwa
Self care and Setting boundaries

In the #MoneyMagic course we start of by writing down our 5 year vision and then spend a huge a portion of the course breaking the vision down into goals and action steps. 

It’s no use having a vision without an action plan or strategy on how to make that vision a reality.

Yes we can ask the universe for help but we’re in a co-creative partnership with the universe and we need to do our part and take action.

For example, if your vision is to lose 15 kgs, you can affirm and visualize your new weight but you have to meet the universe halfway and take action by changing your lifestyle.

Why Families Have The Same Financial Patterns

Why Families Have The Same Financial Patterns

Vangile Makwakwa
Black Tax

Understand that the relationship we have with money and the way we're currently experiencing money can be unwittingly passed onto our kids.

This is why it's not uncommon for a family to have a similar spirit of money or a similar money archetype.

You can find the current generation responding the same way to money as the previous generation did.

It can feel like no matter what we do, we find ourselves in the same situation as our parents.

Maybe your mom would spend all her money at month end, and you feel like you can't stop yourself from spending all your money on month end - no matter what you have to use that money....

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