All in Healing Ancestral Money Trauma
It isn't that you don't want success. It's that being seen doesn't feel safe. In my work, I call this the vow of invisibility. It's an unconscious promise many of us make in childhood to stay small because somewhere along the way we learned that visibility came with a cost.
Expansion is going to trigger you, your expansion is going to trigger others around you, it will also inspire others around you and you are going to grow in ways you never anticipated, if you spend your life running from your triggers, you will make expansion harder.
On this journey of entrepreneurship and crafting a life we really want to live we need a tribe. I keep saying this.
I am blessed because I have a massive support network from family and friends. I am grateful everyday.
My Aunt Ray reciprocated and started sharing her finances with me. She told me about how she would go to loan sharks and how she was in debt, she even brought out her pay slip so I could see how things were not adding up.
This week I want to share with you the podcast I did on Tsitsi's Wealthy Conversation Podcast talking about African money archetypes:
For years, my natural instinct when it came to money, especially having money in the bank or making money, was to run as far and as fast as possible.
And I did this for years and I prayed that somehow if I worked hard enough and did enough affirmations, my money situation would change and my relationship with money would change.