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For years, I couldn't understand what happened to my finances every time I visited my family.
I would arrive home with good intentions and a healthy bank balance but by the time I left, I'd spent far more money than I'd planned. I felt emotionally exhausted, financially drained, and completely confused.
It happened over and over again…
When we're expanding, whether that's asking for more money, building a business, investing, or becoming more visible we often assume the biggest obstacles will be practical and that’s not true. The greatest challenge is often emotional.
For most of my adult life, I unknowingly carried the identity of the little girl who had been made to feel small through physical, emotional, and verbal abuse. Although my circumstances had changed, my identity hadn't and that identity shaped everything…
Each of us brings our own attachment patterns into every relationship including our relationship with money. Our early experiences teach us what to expect from love, safety, and connection. Those same experiences often shape what we expect from money.
If you haven’t heard about these vows, no worries, I was also taught about them in a past life regression session by my guides and then given clear instructions on how to help people heal these vows.
One day we’ll have to sit down for a full day and unpack vicarious trauma and how most children who grow up seeing mothers being abused by fathers, fathers being abused by mothers or parents being abused by other family members financially, emotionally, mentally and physically grow up with deep vows of loyalty to the parent (s) who were abused.
