All in Relationship dynamics and money

Exploring the Link between Sex, Pleasure and Money

Last week, I explored the link between the first chakra and money and how our relationships with family impact our relationship with money.

This week I want to look at the link between the second chakra and money.

The second chakra is the sexual, pleasure and creativity chakra and is located below your belly button.

Where the first chakra is all about survival in relation to the tribe, the second chakra is all about who we are in relation to ourselves.

It’s about the relationship we have with ourselves and we can only ever know ourselves through others as kids.

Why the First Chakra is Really a Money Chakra

A few weeks ago I mentioned how Joburg had a different impact on my relationship with money.

As soon as I noticed this, I decided to just be still and spend the month of June in South Africa and not just leave for Thailand.

I decided to visit my mom in the village and open myself up to being triggered so I can clear all the remnants that are still hanging out in my energy sphere. 

I think this family work is important because it impacts our emotions and energy levels no matter where we are in the world. 
 

How Self-Trust Impacts Your Relationship With Money

I'm still in the village in South Africa and genuinely enjoying my time here. It's peaceful and I'm mostly home alone because my mom wakes up and goes to do her business stuff.

So I have been doing a lot of the meditations and reviewing my personal and business vision and strategy.

And I've also been doing a lot of yoga asanas (poses) and for the first time in years, I was able to do a free standing handstand again.

Can a Country Impact Your Relationship With Money?

A few weeks ago, I had lunch with some Creating Money Magic students and one of them asked me a very interesting question: do I experience Wealthy Money differently in every country?

She mentioned that she noticed that my writing and the things I discuss about money are very different in each country.

In South Africa (I’m still in South Africa right now) my writing is always different and my writing changes – I don’t go as deep in my writings about my conversations with the spirit of money.

I’d actually never noticed that before but I thought about it and asked some people what they thought and the general consensus was the same – my writing and interactions with money change in every country I’m in.

I think it’s really interesting!
 

How Our Relationship With Our Parents Impacts the Way We Manage Money

 

Most of us aren’t aware of how deeply our childhood and the relationship we have with our parents and/or siblings impacts the way we manage money.

The roles we take on as kids impact our sense of power and the power dynamics in parental relationships.

Because my greatest challenge has been the relationship with my mom, my focus has been on healing the mother wound, but the same applies with fathers.

As kids we learn very quickly what makes our mothers happy and for most of us we learn that it's being the good child, the obedient child.

On Building a Romantic Relationship with the Spirit of Money

So I am still in Dubai and spent my Saturday in Abu Dhabi, visiting Emirates Palace and The Grand Mosque.

In the midst of all this, I was also dealing with the fact that in a recent spirit of money meditation, money had asked me if he could please to be a husband instead of a lover.

I think it's important to note that this was 10 days ago and I haven't done a spirit of money meditation since.