It isn't that you don't want success. It's that being seen doesn't feel safe. In my work, I call this the vow of invisibility. It's an unconscious promise many of us make in childhood to stay small because somewhere along the way we learned that visibility came with a cost.
This isn't about money or your bank account; it's about living with the constant feeling that money could disappear at any moment. Repeatedly checking your bank account is how that fear expresses itself.
For most of my adult life, I unknowingly carried the identity of the little girl who had been made to feel small through physical, emotional, and verbal abuse. Although my circumstances had changed, my identity hadn't and that identity shaped everything…
It's payday. Your salary lands in your account. Instead of feeling excited, you avoid opening your banking app or looking at your payslip.
Financial survival asks, "What do I need to do with this money today?"
Building wealth focuses on the future and asks, "How can this money serve me over the next five, ten or twenty years?"
When I talk about womb wisdom, I'm talking about developing a deeper relationship with your body and learning to trust the intelligence that exists beyond your thinking mind.
