Many of the women I work with know deep down that the old way of living is no longer working, they know they're ready for a new chapter. What stops them isn't a lack of ambition, it's fear…
Many of the women I work with know deep down that the old way of living is no longer working, they know they're ready for a new chapter. What stops them isn't a lack of ambition, it's fear…
Each of us brings our own attachment patterns into every relationship including our relationship with money. Our early experiences teach us what to expect from love, safety, and connection. Those same experiences often shape what we expect from money.
Your circumstances can change long before your nervous system believes they have. That isn't because you're broken. It's because your nervous system is designed to predict the future using your past.
Expansion is going to trigger you, your expansion is going to trigger others around you, it will also inspire others around you and you are going to grow in ways you never anticipated, if you spend your life running from your triggers, you will make expansion harder.
Vangile explains how the need to control is deeply rooted in trauma responses, including feelings of powerlessness, fear, and a desire to avoid vulnerability. She discusses how control may initially create a sense of safety but can have unintended consequences—from fostering dependency and resentment to reinforcing dysfunctional family patterns. These dynamics can block authentic connection, erode boundaries, and perpetuate cycles of over-responsibility and burnout.
The RunAway’s transformation involves acknowledging the need for change, practicing self-awareness, and learning to feel safe in the body.