Why Healing Financial Trauma Is The Key To Manifesting Your Financial Vision

Why Healing Financial Trauma Is The Key To Manifesting Your Financial Vision

Vangile Makwakwa
Changing Our Feelings About Money

Ray Dalio once said: “By and large, life will give you what you deserve and it doesn’t give a damn what you like. So it’s your responsibility to connect what you want with what you need to do to get it, and then do those things.”

I think this quote is onto something but life doesn’t give you what you deserve, it gives you what you think you deserve.

This is important to understand – you deserve everything life has to offer. That’s a fact. We all do.

The problem is we don’t believe this and we have created so many stories about what we need to do or be to deserve the things we want or have.

And nowhere is this apparent then with money and when we’re working on manifesting our financial vision.

How To Handle Family Asking For Money

How To Handle Family Asking For Money

Vangile Makwakwa
Black Tax

Just because people are your people, it doesn’t mean you are their person

This applies to everyone Including family.

People will often show us if we’re truly their person in their actions towards us and in the way they talk to us and treat us.

Not all of us are our people's person so we use money and over give in every way as a way to make them our people.

We know we don’t have their loyalty or their devotion.

They may love us but they don’t like us.

But we are loyal to them and we like them because they’re our people so we do the most (financially and otherwise) to make them feel the same way we do and fool ourselves into believing we are their person.

That if we just do XYZ and they see how awesome we are they’ll accept us as their person.

And then we get angry when they keep showing us we’re not their person.

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