I don't think we talk enough about the generational trauma of hiding dirty linen and keeping secrets in families.
The trauma of burying truths in an attempt to "protect the children or the other family members."
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How to Forgive (Without Compromising Your Boundaries)
I’ve been thinking a lot about forgiveness and boundaries.
A few weeks ago I did the meditation on memories about money and had a past life memory.
It’s a memory I’ve had many times before in my past life regression sessions, where I saw my mother kill me. She was a soldier in that life and I was the wife of a man who was plotting treason and when the soldiers came looking for the man they found me.
My sister was my son in that lifetime and I had hid him (my son) in the shed so he could be safe.
In the meditation I flashed to this memory and I saw how right before I died I made a vow to avenge myself and avenge that killing.
This was a light bulb moment for me because I finally understood why my inner child at the age 4 was obsessed with vengeance, especially when it came to my mom.
The first time I ever flashed to this memory, a few years ago, I kept going back and forth between that past life memory and this life time.
On Cutting Ties with Family over Money
The last few weeks have been insane, made more so by anger and guilt emotions that have surfaced around money.
I went to South Africa for 3 weeks and toured the country to my heart’s content. I got back to South Korea on Saturday, and am now packing to leave for Sri Lanka to go get some tantric body work.
But somewhere in the midst of all this, something happened to me – anger!