Moving Countries Will Not Change Your Finances

There’s a money myth that a lot of people, in particular South Africans, buy into and believe.

That myth is that moving to another country will change you finances and lead to financial freedom.

I bought into this myth as well and it shaped my life.

I started traveling and living abroad right after graduation in 2005 because I believed that's what would lead to financial freedom.

How the Collective Victim Shadow Archetype Affects Our Finances

I can see how my history of oppression as a South African has led to a collective victim shadow in my maternal family and how this victim shadow has affected our relationship with money:

  • We feel powerless with money - we never feel like we can master money. It feels like financial events just happen to us. My maternal family has this belief that money is something mystical that only the lucky few can ever master it.

  • We're always operating from a sense of blame - it's never our fault, our financial mishaps are witchcraft or someone’s fault. I spent years blaming my childhood for my debt. I’d convince myself that my relationship with money would’ve been great if I had a better childhood or if I'd been loved better as a child.