I've had to work through various layers of vows of invisibility and loyalty in this plane and the spiritual plane because expanding financially or business wise leads to more visibility, which feels unsafe for me.
All in Healing Ancestral Money Trauma
My Relationship with Money Changed When I started Focusing on My Nervous System
One of the things I keep learning on this money journey is to allow myself not to know and to have compassion with my learning process.
The truth is a lot of things that are normal to most people were hard for me, especially when it comes to money.
Have You done Decolonization Work so You can Heal your Ancestors
One of my friends said something to me this week that still has me shook, she said:
"White people today, especially the most oppressive, are exactly their ancestors' wildest dreams."
Things I Wish I had known When I was in Debt
If there’s one thing I wish someone had told me when I was drowning in US$60,000 (R700, 000 then) debt, it was that - you can be strategic in how you pay off your debt.
A Case Study on How Trauma is Passed Down from Generation to Generation
A few months ago, I saw such a deep display of family trauma on “Iyanla Fix My Life”, and I wanted to share because it shows how trauma is passed down generationally and I loved Iyanla's exercises for the parents to help them see this:
Let’s Talk Ancestral Blessings and Child Support
Some men will say they are bewitched and go and slaughter a village of cows asking for help from their ancestors, meanwhile it's because of how they have treated their kids.