All tagged childhood trauma
For most of my adult life, I unknowingly carried the identity of the little girl who had been made to feel small through physical, emotional, and verbal abuse. Although my circumstances had changed, my identity hadn't and that identity shaped everything…
Time does NOT heal wounds and it certainly doesn't heal trauma.
In fact with time trauma can be passed down from generation to generation and start to shape the family and the way people relate to each other in families.
I'm haunted cos that girl reminds me of me at 15, except I loved my granny to death but I remember being in my teens and telling both my parents I hate them and all I wanted was to leave home and never see them again (actually this was common for me to say to them).
This episode explores money mindset and emphasizes the importance of self-awareness, healing, and prioritizing personal needs.
A while back I was chatting with a friend and we were talking about how much fun adulting is.
I honestly didn't enjoy my childhood and teens because I was constantly dealing with abuse, but adulting has been and continues to be awesome so far:
Some men will say they are bewitched and go and slaughter a village of cows asking for help from their ancestors, meanwhile it's because of how they have treated their kids.
